I could be totally wrong but it seems to me like people don’t just come out once? Like heteronormativity is so ingrained in our society that everyone just assumes everyone else is straight. So people have to keep coming out for their whole lives and that seems so exhausting and unfair?
This is 100% true like I usually have to come out to the same people multiple times because they’re like “oh you were serious about that? Well everyone is /a little/ bi,” and it’s so frustrating