For every gay person who used to identify as bi because of internal homophobia, there’s a bi person who used to identify as gay due to internal biphobia.
For every gay person who used to identify as ace because of internal homophobia, there’s an ace gay person who used to not identify as ace due to internal aphobia.
It’s not that difficult a concept, so if we could stop accusing ace/bi folk of “endangering gay kids” for existing, that’d be nice.
it’s almost like we live under a system that erases and does not teach about possible orientations and that instead of deconstructing this system everyone would rather play the blame game on other minorities who hold no societal power.