not all people who identify as bisexual are fixated on traditional notions of gender, so maybe everyone should stop saying bisexuality excludes trans and nonbinary people, ‘cause it’s getting annoying.
you can be bisexual and nonbinary.
you can be bisexual and be attracted to nonbinary people and it won’t make you less bisexual.
not everyone define the word bisexual as “attracted to men and women”, especially not everyone use “both genders”, since there’s a lot of genders besides men and women.
yes, the definition of bisexual today is very similar to pansexual and some people even use both labels for themselves at once.
implying you know more about a bi person’s experience than they do is really rude and pointless, if a person says they’re bi, they’re bi.
it isn’t hard to respect bi people and their experiences.