not to like make a huge fucking post about shit that’s been talked to death but it really genuinely scares me how many straight girls think it’s normal to just… not like your partner. like they think it’s normal and okay for their boyfriends to openly think they’re stupid and annoying and to be totally derisive about their interests and for them not to be friends or have things in common or enjoy each other’s personalities or encourage their interests? you are supposed to be friends with the person you’re in love with. you are supposed to want to talk to them about the things that make them happy. you do not have to settle for people who treat your entire personality as a burden outside of what you do to cater to them.
yes, but also the other way around! so many straight girls I know will talk about their boyfriends like “he’s so stupid” and “lol I yell at him all the time it’s so funny” like that is not funny at all. you shouldn’t talk bad about your partner to their face or otherwise. also the straight girls that will be like “oh yeah I tell him what to do all the time :)” like guys you don’t deserve that. don’t date a girl who thinks she’s better than you and needs to treat you like a child. date someone who makes you feel like y’all are on the same level. date someone who is your FRIEND.
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