arokaladin:

if ur gonna understand anything about being aro, understand that we have Nothing. by which I don’t mean our lives are unfulfilling ‘lacking’ a certain attraction sucks I just mean like. even compared to other queer groups we have No representation (not even within fandom), No recognition, No real history, No out as aro celebrities, No accepted language to talk about ur experiences, No set path even and it is just. incredibly hard to find ur place bc u can’t see urself anywhere or talk about who you are. And I don’t know how well I explained that but look that’s why we need ur allyship its so there’s any chance we can just have some kind of place to know what being aro even is within some kind of context. I want to stop feeling like i’m floating