since thanksgivings/the holidays are coming up: lgbt people deserve so much more than their rights and existence being a debate at the dinner table
if you family is like this, i hope you the best dealing with it and remember if you have to stay closeted or can’t argue back that’s okay, your safety is what’s most important
how morally corrupt is your 19th century love interest on a scale of “aloof rich guy who doesn’t know how to express his feelings” to “has a secret wife in the attic” and “tries to dig up your grave so he can embrace your dead body”
the thing I enjoy most about this post is that digging up a grave to embrace a dead body is only like. the eighth worst thing heathcliff ever did.
I have never read Wuthering Heights and I never will because I enjoy learning new horrible things about it serendipitously on the internet. If you told me at this point that Heathcliff was once a test pilot for an early old timey submarine I’d be like “sure, seems legit.”
#i picture emily and charlotte sitting there like #trying to one-up each other in what the fuckery #i’ve got an orphan girl marrying a dude who has a secret wife in the attic says charlotte #hold my sherry says emily [@copperbadge]
Okay so, I have this possibly helpful tip/product for trans guys. I know it might seem like a small thing but often with trans dudes the smallest things can make a huge difference.
So, basically I found these underwear (made by Hanes) that are technically women’s underwear but they just look like boxers. (heres a picture)
Now, the reason I’m highly recommending these is because they’re made to fit a female body. The inside even has a place you can put a pad so you don’t have to wear those girly panties for a week each month (if that applies to you, it’s a definite plus). Not to mention they’re affordable (i found a two-pack on sale for 5$) and, since they’re technically women’s underwear, it might be easier to slide by the lesser-supportive parents and the like.
Again, this seems like a really small and dumb thing, but dysphoria’s a bitch and I know y’all just want somethin’ comfy between you and those jeans.
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