Tag: aro ace

vivelarepublique:

One of my favorite things about the release of The Force Awakens has been the surge of lgbtqia+ headcanons about the new characters as well as characters I have loved for years. And for me, ace headcanons are especially important, and so as such, I am here to talk about my ace space babes!!!

In this lovely new surge of Star Wars, I’ve gained a newfound love for Luke Skywalker, who wow oh wow I empathize with so much and rewatching he is so aro ace oh my god, AND I have a new excuse to talk about how much I love Obi-Wan Kenobi, who for a while has been my go-to biromantic ace fave. <333 And then seeing Rey on screen, I couldn’t help but think, oh my god my aro ace child who adores her newfound friends with all her heart, as if I needed more reasons to love her.

I have A Lot of feelings about these headcanons… But this post will get too long if I go on about them. 🙂 These pics aren’t super big or super HQ, they are just designed to be avatars, but if anyone wants other sizes, let me know! Feel free to like or reblog if you use them, or hey, shoot me a message! I love these headcanons and these characters so much and would love to her your thoughts on them ❤

forkless-a-spec-wonder:

I always leave the door open for questioning and uncertainty here, and so does the majority of the aro and ace oriented positivity I see. And there’s good reason for that – not because it’s somehow any worse to make a mistake with aspec labels as opposed to any other ones, but because absolutely everybody deserves an environment where they can change their label freely. That way, nobody feels pressured to stick with anything that feels wrong for them.

But I also want to state that you are under no obligation to continually question yourself or agonize over it – you’re allowed to be sure that you’re aro or ace. You don’t have to hedge all the time. You don’t have to keep one foot out the door in perpetuity, just in case some random, unforseen circumstance changes things.

aroace-and-in-your-face:

Fellow aromantic disasters

I told my sister I was aro, and the only thing she was shocked about was the fact that I wouldn’t get married. Instead, I plan on becoming a famous author and writing representation for as many identities I can think of with my many pets.

So, I wanna know what other aroace people plan for adulthood. What kind of career do you want, and specifically how many cats will you own?

I’m majoring in theatre now, I want to do either costume or set design, and probably will have 3 cats.

saltyaro:

the-probable-aro:

A questioning aro: so what actually is romantic attraction?

All the other aros: we have no idea

I remember something like two years ago some classmate asked me, and some other classmate, what does romantic attraction feels like, as they were questioning.

They could have asked anyone in the classroom but no they had to ask. My aromantic ass. And her demiromantic ass. Best idea ever.