I really love that as a gay I can just point at something and say “that’s gay” and every gay in the vicinity will back me up while straight people are left to wonder wtf we’re talking about
don’t be afraid, friend! voidpunk is awesome! i shall now attempt to explain it in a concise and intelligible way
voidpunk is a subculture that aims to reclaim dehumanization. it started in the aromantic community (it was specifically coined by @arotaro ), which is a community that deals with dehumanization a lot.
aromantic people are often told that we are less than human because we don’t experience romantic attraction, and historically the response of aromantic people has been to insist that we’re human. what voidpunk does is turns that on its head and says “so what if we aren’t?” it takes the power away from dehumanizing arguments, because how can it hurt us to say we aren’t human if we don’t care about being human in the first place?
so yeah, it started in the aromantic community, but has also been adopted by aces, nonbinary people, autistic folk, and generally anyone else who’s told they’re not human because of the way they are, and its awesome and i love it
tl;dr: people told aromantics that we’re not human, we said “lol who cares” and started drawing pictures of ourselves as robots and black holes and stuff
i mean. the real reason i made this post is to post all these photos of same-sex lion groups. they’re just gay look at them! so loving.
im not going to post a pic of the gay lions fucking but we all know there are many
they’re also just so naturally dramatic and comfortable like this guy? this man could dish on anyone at the watering hole and i’d believe him
meanwhile lionesses are like one vegan bakery short of a lesbian network to rival your average new england small city. look at them co-parenting and generally having a womanist community
they also are just very tender and are clearly liberated and more than happy to live a life without men.
also they’re all so butch i mean look at them. they all look like they know how to put up some drywall you know?? you know?
some of the butchest ones even grow little manes. look at her! queen of gender nonconformity.
the hollow feeling in your chest when you watch a romantic movie and you know you’ll never ever have that
watching your friends get into relationships and third wheel you even when they don’t mean to
realizing that every friend you have is going to find someone and leave you because that person is going to mean more to them than you ever did
knowing that even when your love fills your entire heart, it’s never going to mean as much as romance does
wishing and wishing and wishing that maybe if you tried hard enough, you could fall in love
every emotion you have ever had in your entire life is fake and meaningless because none of them were romo
no one is there to listen to you and you are screaming into an unforgiving void whenever you try to talk about this
nothing in any community will ever remember or include you and you don’t know if it’s on purpose or not and you feel like you’re being selfish for wanting to be included but also you are dying inside from a lack of support
the inability to imagine a future in which you are happy
overanalyzing every relationship you’ve ever had in a vain attempt to project romantic feelings you’ve never felt onto someone and fill the void in your chest where being normal should be
second guessing yourself about whether or not you like someone romantically even after having been solid in the aro identity for years
do you want to kiss someone for real or do you just want to want to kiss someone because amatonormativity is telling you to
not having any words to describe anything you feel and no one understanding or respecting the words you come up with to make yourself feel like less of a freak
being mocked mercilessly by people who should support you
having literally no representation in mainstream media
giving 20 min vocab lessons every time you come out
churning out positivity robotically trying to convince yourself and other people like you that you’re going to be okay when you dont even believe it yourself
the constant preaching of marriage and family in religious circles so much that you cannot imagine a life that does not include that but also feeling sick to your stomach every time you try to think of that being your life
Cant Relate, but to literally everything
no one giving a shit about your problems because they only care about their own issues
staying in the closet perpetually because coming out is too much effort
not being able to escape romance because it’s literally everywhere
not bothering to explain your relationships to people because they wouldn’t understand
being incapable of understanding your own feelings for other people because they live in a weird, uncategorizable gray space and will almost certainly not be reciprocated
ima add a few;
• Being told “you’re so lucky” and deeply wanting to explain to them why no, I’m not lucky. At least not the way they mean it
• The pure terror of saying “I love you” to friends because you’re worried they’ll take it romantically
• Wanting to cuddle with people, and hug people, and hold hands, but being too afraid it’ll be read as romo
• Crying over not having any close friends, but not talking to anyone about it because they could never understand
In the last 5 or so years I’ve watch as a significant amount of the aroace community (myself included) has gone from “I’m aroace, but you can just call me ace I guess” to “I’m so incredibly aromantic that I can’t even exspress it in words and if you ever try to erase that part of my identity I’ll come after you with a blunt pocketknife” And honestly? I love it. Keep being stunningly aro y’all.
Here’s the story:
One of my close friends in high school is aromantic and really shy and associal and one day she was with a friend and a dumb asshole made fun of them and called them a couple because he’s stupid and immature so he pissed her off and she almost yelled at him that she’s aromantic and doesn’t experiment romantic attraction (and I’m so proud of her omg) but since then he’s been harrassing her about it.
I need to show her that she’s not alone and did the right thing.
Please reblog if you’re aromantic or belong to the aro-spectrum.
my cat loves and supports me unconditionally. she doesn’t mind that im queer. she doesnt mind if ur queer either. so if ur ever sad bc of some queerphobic loser, remember that Domino the cat loves u no matter who u love and what ur gender is
she loves and supports u!!! look at how proud she is of u!!
Sir-Pounce-A-Lot also love you!
* Sugar is with you all the way, and Spice will support your bathroom rights!💕
Tea Time will guard your homes from queerphobes and sleep on your legs when you’re sad
Pirelli will help you sleep easy by guariding your bed
This is Henry and he supports all aces and nonbinary people out there
IF YOU’RE WONDERING IF I HAVE FIVE CATS THE ANSWER IS YES. I HAVE FIVE CATS. AND THEY ALL LOVE THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY AND THEY LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHO YOU LOVE OR WHAT YOUR GENDER IDENTITY IS. THEY JUST LOVE YOU.
“the Bible says homosexuality is a sin” well the Bible also has a lot of sexism, rape, incest, violence and a lot of contradictory messages in general because it was written by people and people have agendas
I don’t really think that God even has the time to care about if people are gay like if he’s got a whole world to run there are more important things anyway
And if God is love, he’s not just loving me if I am what he wants; he’s loving me as the person he made me to be, which is a queer person
You can’t say “I love you, and I made you gay but I’m sending you to hell you awful sinner” my dude that doesn’t make sense it’s not like hell has a low population is it
The god I believe in loves queer people because that’s how he made us
the bible doesn’t condemn homosexuality anyway. It’s content taken out of context and misinterpreted over hundreds of years of translations, re-translations, and mis-translations.
Hell, in Kenneth Davis’s Don’t Know Much About The Bible, there’s a passage that absolutely blows my mind and proves just how much we can misinterpret with simple translation mistakes:
“In researching the world’s oldest city, for instance, I learned that Joshua’s Jericho is one of the oldest human settlements. It also lies on a major earthquake zone. Could that simple fact of geology have had anything to do with those famous walls tumbling down? Then I discovered that Moses and the tribes of Israel never crossed the Red Sea but escaped from Pharaoh and his chariots across the Sea of Reeds, an uncertain designation which might be one of several Egyptian lakes or a marshy section of the Nile Delta. This mistranslation crept into the Greek Septuagint version and was uncovered by modern scholars with access to old Hebrew manuscripts.”
The bible is one long-ass game of telephone, whispered around the world in dozens if not hundreds of languages, for thousands of years. I have a hard time knowing what my grandpa is talking about, when he starts going on about the technology or practices of his youth, and that was only about 80 years ago, in the same country and in the same language as me. So why every Joe on the streets thinks they can take one or two verses, completely out of context and probably mis-translated several times to boot, and use it to spout propaganda and hatred for an entire group of people will forever be beyond me.
You’re all valid, and frankly, if there is a ‘loving God,’ then that God will be happy to see you happy. Seriously.
I needed that. Thank you.
The Bible wasn’t faxed down from the sky, people, it’s been compiled and formulated for hundreds of years until it became what it is today. And yes, misinterpreted by whoever with whatever agenda-of-the-day.
And hypocrites always stick to the word and not the spirit of any religion: to love, to help, to respect, to protect, and to strive to make the world a better place.
Yup, Jesus never said ANYTHING against LGBT people. All he said was don’t be greedy, don’t be lustful and don’t be wrathful. The fact that LGBTphobes took those instructions out of context to justify their LGBTphobia is pretty telling!
Hey, your friendly neighborhood Jew here!
You guys know that verse in Leviticus that homophobes like to trot out? Well, I’m here to tell you:
They don’t read Hebrew and they don’t know shit.
And now here’s something you probably won’t hear from any of those Fine Christian Folks ™ anytime soon, either:
We do read Hebrew and we still don’t know shit.
Here’s the thing. The most “accurate” word-for-word translation of that verse would say “a man shall not lie with another man; it is forbidden.”
Here’s the issue.
The grammar surrounding “men” in that sentence isn’t correct, and the word I’ve translated as “forbidden” is “toevah,” a word so fucking old we literally don’t know what it meant anymore.
The strange sentence construction suggests that “lie with another man” uses a feminine construction you wouldn’t normally find in a sentence that’s entirely about men, and while “toevah” means “forbidden,” it’s not actually clear what is forbidden. Here’s an incomplete list of possibilities:
Pederasty (adult male/adolescent male sex) is full-stop forbidden, a man sleeping with a male prostitute is full-stop forbidden, a man sleeping with a man as part of any kind of sex magic or fertility ritual is forbidden.
And my rabbi’s personal interpretation, based on the sentence construction: a man shouldn’t sleep with another man in a woman’s bed. (So basically: don’t cheat on your wife with a dude, which is probably treated separately from “don’t commit adultery” because adultery would come with the risk of an illegitimate child.)
You’ll notice none of these involve “ew, you disgusting gays.”
Unless you accept a word-for-word literal translation with zero consideration for the social mores and other tribes surrounding Israel contemporary with the writing of Torah, nothing about this commandment has anything to do with our modern understanding of queer people having committed relationships. Once you start taking the rituals and practices of Israel’s contemporaries into account, it suddenly becomes clear why these prohibitions would have been put into place (sex magic was common in the cult of Ba’al, for example, while pederasty was practically a requirement in Greece).
If you’re just a person out there loving other people of the same gender as you?The Torah says nothing against you. But do you know what our literary tradition does say?
It puts you in the company of Naomi and Ruth.
Ruth is considered the first convert, and her vow to her mother-in-law Naomi (after Ruth’s husband’s death) forms the basis of our modern marriage vows. “Where you go, I shall go, and where you lodge, I shall lodge; your people shall be my people, and your G-d my G-d; and where you die I shall die, and there shall I be buried.” Ruth remarries as prescribed by law at the time, but even when a child is born of that new union, nobody calls it “Ruth’s and Boaz’s child”–they all say a child has been born to Ruth and Naomi.
You are in the company of a woman whose name we invoke in our prayers and whose life we celebrate. I wear her words around my shoulders on my tallit, my sacred prayer shawl. Since we consider that everything in the Tanakh is intended for learning and study, what might we take from this story, but that a queer person can be virtuous and beloved of G-d?
This reason is why we cannot make laws based on these books.
They are mythological tales, some based on real events, some based on anecdotal stories meant to teach, but still, they are the only the mythos of a people. A cultural commonality, and even sacred to a subset of the world, but other sunsets have different mythos passed down through generations. And we, in this non theocratic nation, should not be held accountable to a single interpretation of any mythos. We are on Native American land and we don’t follow their spiritual practices. We don’t let Zeus tell us what to do.
We choose the morality that fits our narrative.
Some people’s narrative is filled with anger and hate and they chose an interpretation that allows them to express that rage. Some people are filled with prejudice and need to oppress other people and there are religious interpretations that support that. That doesn’t make it right.
Religion has value, anthropologicaly. It highlights the values and struggles as a society saw them. But, as a societal construct, it must evolve. Just like we throw out incorrect tenants in science as we develop new theories. Just like we left the tribes and dictatorships of our past behind to form new governments.
Ideally, we need to let religion pass from law into mythos.